Inspirational thoughts and random writings from the alumni and friends of Quad-Cities Christian Writers Conference.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Happy Daddying

By Robin Steinweg

A good dad—the world needs more of them. I was blessed to have a father who loved me, took care of me and my sister, and loved our mother. His job took him traveling so we only saw him on weekends, yet he was a great dad. Here are some of the qualities that made him—and can make you or a dad in your life—a good dad:

Accessible

Affectionate

Affirming

Attentive

Cheerful

Compassionate

Encouraging

Faithful

Friendly

Funny, sense of humor

Generous

Genuine—sincere

God-fearing (not scared, but awed)

Growing in Christ-likeness

Hard-working

Helpful

Honest

Humble

Kind

Protecting

Providing

Self-sacrificing

Teachable

Truthful

If you’re not the best of dads yet, take heart. You can learn! These traits can be encouraged by the women in a dad’s life, too. My dad might not have thought of driving home a few hundred miles just to attend a concert or recital one of us was in, but Mom thought of it and told him it was important. Know what? It didn’t bother us that it wasn’t his idea—the important thing is, he did it. He was there.

Though Dad was away and then had lots to do around the house when he was home, when he spent time with us he threw himself into it whole-heartedly. Eye contact. No distractions. He made it seem like there wasn’t another person on earth, nor anything else more worth his time than us.

Be there. Happy Daddying!

8 comments:

  1. This touched my heart. My dad was quite the opposite. I am fascinated by what a good dad might be like. This is also a beautiful picture to me of God and who we are in Christ when we participate in the great exchange.

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  2. Brenda, thank you for commenting. You've hit on the most wonderful truth--the Great Exchange and our perfect Father God's unconditional, personal love for us.

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  3. I was blessed with a wonderful dad and my husband has been a great father. I pray that my sons are also great dads- not because they do things perfectly but because, like their father and grandfather, they live in grace and show it to their children.

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    1. Grace-filled fathers--that's what we need! Thanks, Prude.

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  4. Beautiful post, Robin. Touching, encouraging and loved the list.

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  5. Thanks, Lori. It's a good week to reflect on a good dad. Greet yours for me!

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